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What is abuse?
Verbal AbuseName Calling: Sarcasm, ridiculing, put downs; Threats: To kill or damage property, to kill self, pets or harm friendships. Intimidation: Creating fear with facial expressions, tone of voice, gesture or stopping another's movement; breaking into vehicles, houses, destroying property, pets.
Emotional AbuseContinious criticism: Extreme jealousy, denying privacy. Isolation: From contact with friends and family; restricting who partner can see and talk to, where partner can go, not letting partner work or go to school. Domination: Always being the boss, having all the power. Using Children: Using visitation to harass partner, sending messages through the children, turning children against partner by criticizing partner.
Financial AbuseControlling all the money, concealing joint assets or shared money, keeping partner impoverished, blowing all the family money.
Physical AbusePushing, slapping, hitting, kicking, choking, hair pulling, biting, using weapons, tying up a person, locking them in a room, preventing sleep.
Sexual AbuseForcing another to perform sex acts they do not want to do, rape or physically attacking the sexual parts of another's body.
System AbuseViolating restraining orders, child custody agreements, using the legal system to harass, telling lies about a partner to police, counselors or the courts.
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